The development that leads the girl to follow the man into his home is a hesitant one. The various formalities have to be settled before the marriage takes place. This gradual development can be carried over to other situations as well, whenever proper working relationships are concerned, for example when an official is appointed. In such cases one must wait for development to unfold properly. Rushing ahead would not be good. Finally, it is the same where one wants to exert influence on others. There too the proper path of development lies through the cultivation of one's own character. No influence exerted through agitation works in the long run.
Inwardly, too, development must follow the same path if lasting results are to be achieved.
What is gentle and adaptable, and yet penetrating too, is the outer side, which must come out of inner calm.
The very gradualness of development makes constancy necessary. For only constancy keeps slow progress from petering out in the end.